Posts

Showing posts from January, 2026

Medium Article Review Part Nine (TikTok Edition)

Image
  Dismantling "Caveman Logic": Why Evolution Actually Debunks Modern Patriarchy. This is a disclaimer:   any reference to history, sociology, and psychology from this point onward is a result of my own research, tailored to suit my arguments, my objectives, and to push my own narrative. I advise you to do your own research for the sake of this conversation. Grab a pen and paper for pointers; this is crucial information you might not get anywhere else. Today’s excerpt reads as follows: “The cavemen and women each had a role to play in their societal structures; now I’m no expert in matters of evolution and historical civilization, but as someone with an opinion, here’s a bone to pick; if we’ve evolved so much, then some of those behaviors should not be used to justify the more evolved human’s behaviors. If we can build and make clothes to protect ourselves from the elements, cook our food, participate in the economy, be educated even... Why should we justify reducing other peo...

MEDIUM ARTICLE REVIEW PART EIGHT (TIKTOK EDITION)

Image
Deconstructing the Sacred Cage: Religion as the Final Pillar of Patriarchal Cont rol Integrating the Religious Trifecta and Reclaiming Self-Defined Power Nothing has changed; I've been decentering patriarchy and its colonial legacies in South Africa piece by piece, still am. We’ve dissected  Culture  and  Society  as systems affecting Black South African women in the previous article, and the one leading to this, a clarification of The Archetypes and The Scales. Now, we arrive at the third and final punchline:  The Role of Religion in a Patriarchal and Romantically Systemic Society . This isn't just an add-on; it's the sacred engine that powers and justifies the entire machine, what with people as individuals, and communities as a collective secularizing and being secularized to fit whatever political, religious, and societal narrative life throws at them. I always stand to be corrected, hence I always look for evidence to either back-up or negate my opinions. ...

Medium Article Review Part Seven (TikTok Edition)

Image
  The Archetypes and The Scales – Political Forces vs. Personal Sovereignty In a previous article , I identified five distinct archetypes with clear characteristics and psychological profiles, each representing different adaptation strategies to patriarchal systems. The spectrum of archetypes that I identified represents the various ways South African women are “redefined” after navigating The Clash of Values in their relationships. So, if you've wondered what are these norms that I speak of, or if this is something that can affect you, that you've experienced, or if it's just stuff of the movies, I hope this conversation sparks an interest in looking at your and others' experiences thoroughly and through a logical lens for once. I believe that this framework moves beyond simple labels and captures the complex and often painful journey of transformation. This comes from a statement I wrote in my article that states: “In every romantic endeavor, one is bound to come out ...

Medium Article Review Part Six (TikTok Edition)

Image
 The Tightrope Walk: How Colonial Laws Scripted Lobola and Judged the Single Mother This is a visual interpretation that starkly illustrates the historical and systemic "tightrope" that has defined the social and legal landscape for many women. This image visualizes the "tightrope walk" of a Black woman navigating a dual system of control. She balances a child on her hip while walking a rope woven from traditional fibers and colonial legal parchment, symbolizing the distortion of practices like Lobola for systemic control. Caught between colonial bureaucrats and traditional authorities, she navigates a "double patriarchy" above an abyss of societal judgment and stigma. Her use of a broken spear for balance and her determined expression highlight the profound resilience required to survive these rigid, conflicting frameworks. The article in focus is “Power Dynamics: Romantic Power (Part One).”  I'm not sure if it is obvious, but if it isn't, I’m exa...